Molly McGrady
I decided to check out a Netflix original movie for this
weeks blog post because somehow I actually had a little extra time! I asked a
girl that I work with if she had a favorite or any suggestions and she told me
to watch Burning Sands, so I went for
it. She told me it was about fraternity hazing, so it seemed pretty interesting
to me and it’s a very prevalent issue in American society today. The biggest
takeaway from this movie is that a college freshman going through a fraternity
rush died in the process, and it was a very sad and messed up film to watch.
This movie is pretty much what you would think of when
you hear a movie is about fraternity hazing. It follows a group of five college
freshmen rushing Lambda Lambda Phi, an African American fraternity with a
strong history. All five of them have a father, brother, or grandfather who
were members of the fraternity in college and have been instilled the task of keeping
up the family tradition. They go through countless humiliating and painful
circumstances over their pledge season in order to become a part of this
fraternity. The main character, Zurich, even fractures a couple of ribs and
loses his girlfriend in the process and continues to go through this to get to
be a part of the brotherhood. At one point he even goes to the dean of the
university, also a former fraternity brother, to seek refuge and get advice on
how to quit or change the process of all of it and make it safer for the
pledges. What he gets in return is shocking and terrifying, not what you would
at all expect; the Dean yells at him to get up and recite the fraternity’s
motto and then tells him he needs to suck it up and get through it for
brotherhood. In the end however, on the last night of the boy’s hell week, one
of them is beaten to the point of death. The older fraternity members simply
leave him with the other pledges and run away to try and not let anything that
happened be traced to them. The boys try to get him to the hospital in time,
but they are too late.
I don’t think that anyone would argue that what happened
in this movie is extremely tragic and things like this should never occur. I’d
like to talk about it in a little different light, however. I think a lot of
people see things like this and wonder why on earth anyone in their right mind
would go through this type of treatment, but in a lot of ways, I do understand
it. The fact that these boys were able to go through all the physical and
emotional torment they endured shows one of the most basic human instincts in
action: the will to survive. When it comes down to it, everyone just wants the
chance to prove themselves to others and more importantly for their own pride.
Being in a fraternity that hazes is a priveledge, and being able to say that
you were able to make it seems pretty glorious to anyone in my opinion. Another
reason this occurance makes sense is that people have another trait in common
all over the world that unites us: we all want to be a part of something bigger
than ourselves. Let’s face it, life is just a weird thing in general and things
like fraternities are the biggest example of a social construct known to
mankind, but it gives people purpose and a sense of belonging. That’s something
that no one could argue of not wanting for themselves. Basically what I’m
getting at is that I totally get the intent and will of these boys in the
movie, and I’ll go as far to say I think the whole thing is pretty noble. I
think what the problem is here is simply that people have taken all of it too
far. As time goes on and traditions deepen their roots, people tend to get more
and more intense with what may have started as something small. This to me is
what is the root of the problems we have with hazing in greek organizations.
Not something bad, actually just the opposite, the problem is people being so
dedicated and loyal that other things like human empathy and compassion get
pushed aside. It really just boils down to basic human psychology at the end of
the day and could happen to any of us. It needs to change and things like
deaths due to hazing most definitely need to end, but that energy that it comes
from is not the problem, it just needs to be channeled in something better that
doesn’t hurt people.
This is a really interesting view on hazing. Thanks for sharing! It really makes me want to watch the movie now and see what my take is on it.
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