For this week I watched the first episode of Easy, unfortunately it wasn’t that easy
to watch, in fact some of it actually made me uncomfortable. The first episode
is about a middle age couple with two kids that are having issues within their sex
life. Throughout the episode you get a very graphic inside look on how their lives
were. After doing some research I discovered that all 8 of the episodes in this
season are about a different relationship and focus on a different aspect of
the relationship. Even though they are different I personally could not go back
and watch any more. This would be a great show for an older couple that was for
a middle age person whom could relate a lot but for me it was almost disturbing
to watch this episode especially the sex scene. But my question is why I am
bothered by watching this. .. Is this society affecting my opinions?
Most sex scenes in movies are thought of as raunchy and
sexy, normally you would think of this happening between two younger people. So
why when we see a couple that does not fit does it bother us? In my opinion
younger people relate better to younger people having sex along with the fact
that this is what is shown to us making us much more familiar to this scene
rather than to older people. Along with the fact that sometimes when we see a
couple older than us we associate that with our parents or grandparents which
in return makes us feel uncomfortable about the content. This then brings up
another question; do older people feel uncomfortable when seeing the younger
generation in this manner? They could relate someone younger to their kids or
they could put it in a different point of view and think about it as those
being the “golden days”. There’s a lot of different ways to look at it and a
lot of different factors that come into play when talking about a subject like
this but like many other things media plays a role. Like I talked about earlier with younger
people being depicted as more sexualized we become comfortable with this and
often you even forget that older people have sex too and that there is no
difference between the two.
Most of this all basically came to is that everybody has a different
opinion and many different factors that go into opinions in a show. I may not
have really liked this show but I also can tell you that someone out there
likes it or maybe even can relate to it. This is overall the most important
thing to keep in mind and to remember that just because someone likes something
you don’t they may have been exposed to other things in their life that change their
opinion. And in the end and no matter if it’s right or wrong society will
always affect us but that just makes us a little more unique.
All in all, I think your last paragraph is a great takeaway for life.
ReplyDeleteAs far as sex in the media goes, I think something else to point out is often characters who are supposed to be in high school (ages 14-18 roughly) are often played by actors who are at least in their twenties. What affect does that have for the audience when they watch sex scenes between high school characters? Similarly, characters who are older are often played down in age by actors in their 20s and 30s. Is this Hollywood-ized version of sex really ingrained so much into our culture that sex cannot be depicted outside of the early adult years? This is where I would really be interested in looking at shows from other countries and how these things are portrayed.